True Love

Hi guys,I just to find to anyone out there who is an expert in matters of love to please explain to me why is it that when you are dating someone you're accepted uncoonditionally and you are well well looked after irrespective how careless you are?We all know that people are living examples not that you have to experience everything,but in honest truth I'm sorry to put it like this but it's fact women are better lovers when they are girlfriends,once married the tune changes and others become demons and suddenly your mother becomes a witch.Sometimes I wonder whether there's true love in this earth or we are just being tolerant,maybe men are "dogs" but onething for sure if a men loves you surely he does but a "dog" we'll always be a "dog" .In all fairness we men accept women unconditionally and elevate her to a better state and as a man how can you really be sure that your women really loves since you are the one who proposed to her?I am not saying there shouldn't be trust between partners,honesty,loyalty and love but I'm saying for better or worse and before I forget I must warn women that marriage is not that beautiful event that was well planned but a lonely and very difficult process/journey.

Thanx for taking your time to read this
MJ JIYANE
hoping to get your positive response.

Lowering the standards

In this time of recession life is difficult because of many debts that we're having and as results we have to cut the cost
meaning that one has to stop spending "irresponsibly".When I grew up neighbours used to look after one another,if you had no sugar you ask your nieghbour,no maize meal you get it,it's cold outside you don't have money coals are provided by neighbours that was then.Nowadays its very difficult because that culture is gone and then came the culture of credit cards where you buy everything on credit and that includes clothes and food,some people has as many as five credit cards just to maintain the standards,the question now is are you prepared to lower your standard
by reducing your credit cards,remember it simply mean you are going to leave below you means as experts advise us to,you have to stop going out eg(movies,restaurants,festivals,stadium,holidays list is endless),basically you life comes to a standstill and you become grounded.Not all credit is bad depending on how you use it and on top of that few people will be driving cars and owning houses,so people shouldn't live below their means but find way to make more money and eventually you're going to have a surplus and make sure that make a lot of it,life is precious we must enjoy it to the fullest,I might have left something out please don't hesitate to comment

Yours
MANDLA

Benefits

We seem to take things very lightly when it comes what's rightfully ours,I've noticed recently the strikes that were happening across the country where unions for the first in my life time fought for something that I always thought should come first decent place to live.Right now as educators we rceive an allowance of R500 and we seems to content with,the price of houses have increasing exponentially whilst the salaries were not, on top of that we're expected to understand.May we should consider other alternatives to unions and form teachers forum where genuine demands will be made without being sold out.I feel strongly about this issue and i think we should give unions a mandate instead of them thinking for us.Lastly I think unions must be held responsible for any action that they undertook,by this I mean if they want us to go to strike we should be payed a certain amount by the unions otherwise why are paying subscription fee?

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politicians always make excuses but not doing enough to make sure learning and teaching take place