Hi guys,I just to find to anyone out there who is an expert in matters of love to please explain to me why is it that when you are dating someone you're accepted uncoonditionally and you are well well looked after irrespective how careless you are?We all know that people are living examples not that you have to experience everything,but in honest truth I'm sorry to put it like this but it's fact women are better lovers when they are girlfriends,once married the tune changes and others become demons and suddenly your mother becomes a witch.Sometimes I wonder whether there's true love in this earth or we are just being tolerant,maybe men are "dogs" but onething for sure if a men loves you surely he does but a "dog" we'll always be a "dog" .In all fairness we men accept women unconditionally and elevate her to a better state and as a man how can you really be sure that your women really loves since you are the one who proposed to her?I am not saying there shouldn't be trust between partners,honesty,loyalty and love but I'm saying for better or worse and before I forget I must warn women that marriage is not that beautiful event that was well planned but a lonely and very difficult process/journey.
Thanx for taking your time to read this
MJ JIYANE
hoping to get your positive response.
HiMJ
ReplyDeleteAccording to my christian perspective there is only one uncoditional love from above that is PURE,REAL,NOT CHANGING, NOT BIASED but inclusive to human beings, etc.
To be honest, trustworthy,fathful, etc you need to accept CHRIST as your MENTOR who had to die for our sins. In short I'm saying true love only comes from GOD but love from the earth is not permanent, the same, influenced by factors around it.
GOD BLESS.
There is no true love in this world,every so-called feeling of love is situated or loaded broer!
ReplyDeleteYou can only be certain of how much YOU love someone, just assume that he/she loves you to your satisfactory level. The way things are happening, tempt one to believe that we love one another for our own convenience. I believe that most women change in marriage because they think that they have arrived at the summit or pinnacle. This is because it is every little girl's dream to meet their 'Prince Charming'; so when a man proposes, they think that their dream has been brought to fruition, little realizing that marriage life marks the beginning of an elevated challenge in the adult life, because you are now in charge and responsible for the upbringing of offsprings.
ReplyDeleteI believe that when people agree to collaboratively walk this life journey together, the aim is not to compete but to complete one another...